Ok, so i had this idea earlier to help this relationship work out better and stuff, yeah its hard to explain. anyway I decided that making a list of all the stuff i need to change and what he needs to change and to write it out on the whiteboard. I forget sometimes and I dont want the same problems to keep reoccurring, and when I look up and see those things, I know what to do, same goes for him. I'm going to write it out on paper too, cause it cant stay on the whiteboard forever. Maybe it's a dumb idea, but maybe it will work.